By Doris AC Johnson MA of Psy, ABA<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I did it. I did it! I finally figured it out. NOPE! \u201cAll men are not dogs!\u201d They are not humping on
everything that moves. Or sticking it in any wet hole they see. In fact, I see that many women
are taking the reins. It\u2019s kinda scary, but that\u2019s beside the point. Time to deaden this stereotype.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We want them. We love them. But there is a disconnect. We aren\u2019t coupling up like people did
fifty years ago. Instinctively, women are more nurturing and more focused on romance. Perhaps
because it was instilled in us through fairy tales, so we self-consciously await our Prince
Charming. Starry-eyed, we romanticize the possibilities. It\u2019s disappointing for the women who
don\u2019t understand\u2026who aren\u2019t accepting, or who are searching under every rock and chair to
find a soulmate. And we don\u2019t get the rock. We don\u2019t get the ring. And in some cases, we don\u2019t
even get a call back. I don\u2019t know about you\u2026but I\u2019m sensitive. A strong wind could come along
and it could possibly disturb my emotional balance. I take things very personally. But it\u2019s not
always about me or you. (notes to self)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are multiple reasons why men don\u2019t commit. They DON\u2019T commit because they feel like
they don\u2019t have to. Women outnumber men so there is a sea of women. All he has to do is bait it
and reel it in. And some of us are thirsty so it doesn\u2019t take much to conquer us.
Maybe he doesn\u2019t commit because he wants to keep his options open. He\u2019s young\u2026and I would
think that’s a valid reason because we definitely want a man that is ready to be in a
relationship\u2026mature enough to exist in a union. Maybe he doesn\u2019t comment because he flat out
doesn\u2019t want to. Or the timing is way off. He could be working on himself. Not everything is a
rejection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are also a multitude of reasons why men won\u2019t commit. And the number one reason is
that he doesn’t trust you. Why? Because you are too available. And when I say available\u2026I am
referencing your distribution method. First date sex generally is not the breeding ground for a
relationship. First date sex is not the conduit to a marriage proposal. It\u2019s the road to emotional
chaos. Now you are wondering if you are in a committed relationship. Chances are\u2026he won\u2019t
committ. He will call you back on his terms. If you are giving it away with a double coupon\u2026you
can forget it! I just thought you should know. Carry on!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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